I have been dating a wonderful man for about four months now.We’ve known each other almost 20 years prior to dating, and the transition to an amorous relationship was easy and natural.Dating a divorced man with children will mean joining a new family, so make sure you’re ready for what that could entail.Don’t look into the past When you date a divorced man with kids, you’re likely to come across reminders of his former relationship.He is great at communicating his feelings to me, and although we’ve never had the “relationship talk” I’ve never felt the need to have it because he shows all the signs of a great boyfriend.However, we’re at the four month mark, and I’m starting to get a bit antsy and curious about a few things.I get so many emails asking me about whether to date someone who is separated, recently divorced, or even fresh out of a breakup that I wanted to tackle this tricky subject.We’re often scared (even if nothing has actually happened yet with a particular person) that we may be letting our last chance or even best chance saloon slip away.
Whether a relationship lasts forever, or fizzles out in a jiffy, we can never really stop looking for love and companionship.
So bear in mind that your date’s ex-wife will be in the picture while you are dating him.
They may need to speak often about their children and arrangements for care.
We talk daily (if he has his son it’s usually by text, otherwise we chat by phone in the evenings), he makes it a point to see me once a week and we always have so much fun together.
When we are together things are easy and fun, just as they should be!